Are you trying to contact your loved ones in the Spirit World? Before you try to contact them, free your mind of fear, negativity and skepticism. Negative influences could be a stumbling block for you. When you reach out to them, be patient, kind and respectful. Before my love of my life, Todd, passed away, I asked him to come to me, how the other Spirits do. I know he heard me. Todd did appear to me, several weeks later. He has made his appearance to me three times. The most recent time, I was talking to him about how I know, how much he loved the UFO Documentaries for an entire week. I had the UFO shows on for him all week. Todd appeared to me at the end of the week. We actually had a conversation about his shows and we hugged each other. If you acknowledge your loved one in the Spirit World, it is a matter of time, they will acknowledge you too. Spirits can also try to get our attention through God's Beautiful Creations: Butterflies, Cardinals, Hummingbirds, etc. If any of these are flying over to you very closely, this is your loved one!